How do I manage my life?

Between college and trying to save money for next semester I am pretty burned out. Everytime I fall asleep I sleep very deep. I am trying to get all of my ignments done and projects completed. I want to quit working in my small town cafe and get a better paying job in the city I live in. I want to do all these things but I am afraid to make the first few steps. I want to reinvent myself. Also- I wouldnt mind a new man. I just want to move on and start managing my life. I dont have time for anything and find it hard to follow a schedule. I am going to school for religious studies and philosophy. I want to lose thirty pounds. I just want to be happy and become who I want to be.